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Free Women Q&A · Brain and mood

Why do I feel I can’t do my job anymore, when I used to be so capable?

Updated October 2026Free Women teamMedical review pending
The short answer

Walk into a room and forget why? Lose a word you use every day? That's brain fog, and it's real. The leading explanation is that fluctuating estrogen makes the brain areas for memory and words work harder, and poor sleep, hot flashes and anxiety pile on. Your test scores can look normal while you feel anything but [1]. For most women it settles, and there is plenty to try.

A place to start

What can help, at a glance

Lifestyle options

Start with everyday support

  • Protect your sleep. Treating the hot flashes and night sweats that wreck it helps. Talking therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) has the best evidence.
  • Move, at the right time of day. Exercise when your brain feels most foggy.
  • Calm the stress. Mindfulness and group programs show promise.
  • Make work easier. A notebook, a meeting summary tool and one person you trust.

Clinical options

Discuss what is driving it

  • Cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia (CBT-I). A short course of talking therapy aimed at sleep.
  • Hormone therapy. It is not recommended as a treatment for brain fog or to protect thinking [2]. If hot flashes and night sweats are wrecking your sleep, treating them is a reasonable conversation to have with your doctor.
  • Know when to get it checked. See the list near the end.
  • Creatine is one to watch, but it isn't proven for brain fog yet. Check with your clinician first.

What may be going on

Why this happens

Several things stack up at once, and they can feed each other. Here is what we know about each.

Brain fog: your brain is adjusting to a moving target

Estrogen acts on parts of the brain that handle memory, attention and finding words. In perimenopause it fluctuates and declines rather than simply falling, so those areas keep having to adjust. This is the leading explanation, but the evidence for it in women is still limited.

What we can see: there is moderate evidence that women in perimenopause don't get the usual practice boost on repeated memory tests, and that it comes back after menopause [3]. Average scores stay within the normal range, with small dips in learning and recalling words [2]. Yay, it does improve after menopause.

But that doesn't mean we should dismiss it. When we are so used to thinking clearly and getting sh*t done, brain fog makes us doubt ourselves, doubt our abilities and think we are getting old. We're not, but we can try some things to reduce the brain fog.

Sleep and hot flashes: the fog multiplier

Night sweats and hot flashes break up sleep, and a tired brain is slower at paying attention and remembering. There is moderate evidence that broken sleep and frequent hot flashes are both linked to memory difficulties at this stage [2].

Anxiety and low mood: the same chemistry, plus a lot to carry

Estrogen also influences the brain's mood chemicals, including serotonin. When it fluctuates, some women become more sensitive to stress and more prone to anxiety and low mood. Again, this is the leading explanation, and the evidence is limited. It isn't proven for every woman.

What we can see: there is moderate evidence that women who started out with little anxiety were more likely to report a lot of it in perimenopause and after menopause [4]. And there is strong evidence that depressive symptoms are more common in perimenopause, with about 40% higher odds than before it [5]. Both measure symptoms, not diagnoses.

The loop

If you have always been the person who gets it right, noticing a slip can feel like proof that something is badly wrong. Worry, worse sleep and more slips may feed each other. We didn't find a study that tests this in menopause, so the evidence is unclear. It is a fair question, not yet a finding.

Is it dementia?

No. Brain fog is not dementia. It can manifest itself in many different ways including dissociation, fatigue, forgetfulness and excessive cognitive effort which can make tasks harder and slower, but they stay doable, whereas dementia progresses and disrupts daily life. There is moderate evidence that most women do not develop dementia from brain fog, though researchers are still studying whether perimenopausal brain fog says anything about risk much later in life [2].

You are not alone

How common is it?

You are not alone at work in experiencing brain fog, feeling anxious about going to work, and being able to do your job, or just feeling bleurgh. Some women feel that they just don't feel alive, or don't feel joy.

  • 32% of Canadian women aged 40 to 60 said menopause symptoms hurt their work performance, and 24% hid their symptoms at work [7]. There is moderate evidence behind this.
  • 40% of Canadian women physicians said menopause hurt their work performance, and 62.6% said they worked harder to keep it up [6]. The evidence is limited.
  • In British Columbia, 24% of women aged 39 to 60 scored above the threshold for anxiety and 38% for depression [9]. There is moderate evidence behind this.

These figures describe different survey populations; they are not directly comparable.

What we don't know is whether symptoms measurably change how well women do their jobs. The studies so far don't show a consistent link, and all have weaknesses, so the evidence is limited [8]. But we know that women are reducing their hours, taking less responsibility at work, or even leaving the workforce, because they believe they aren't as a capable as before. The research hasn’t shown that this is true so it's tough, but believe in yourself, and try one of the things you can do about it.

What you can do about it

Options, without the treasure hunt

Lifestyle and everyday tools come first, then clinical options. Each group runs from the strongest evidence to the weakest.

Lifestyle options

Everyday tools

  • Mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR). A guided mindfulness program. It made hot flashes less bothersome and improves sleep, anxiety and stress, though not the hot flashes intensity [17]. The evidence is limited so far, because it comes from one trial. The 2026 VA/DoD guideline rates it more highly [11], but we haven't yet seen the trials behind that rating.
  • Exercise. There is a theme across so many of these sections, on the importance of exercise, but for brain fog, the evidence is moderate: the guideline leans in favour of it for mood, though the recommendation is not firm [11]. Look at when your brain feels most foggy, and perhaps plan exercise then. If you wake up and find you can focus, perhaps delay your exercise to lunchtime to get the blood pumping through those brain cells. Tip.
  • A group program built for this. A small pilot found that a short group program improved women's confidence in their own thinking, though their test scores didn't change [10]. The evidence is limited. Perhaps something you can achieve with your friends, or that work can organize?
  • Creatine. Everyone is asking about it. There is moderate evidence that it gives a small boost to memory and perhaps slightly faster attention in adults generally, though most of them weren't menopausal [14]. For midlife women the evidence is limited: one small trial found some reaction and alertness tests improved, and some women felt less fatigue and found it easier to concentrate [15]. In older adults the findings are mostly positive but mixed, so again the evidence is limited [18]. So it isn't a proven brain fog treatment, but it is one to watch. Check with your clinician before trying it, especially if you have kidney problems or take regular medication.
  • A notebook, a meeting summary tool, one person you trust. I know I have to have a notebook with me for every meeting now, and I do find technology is good at summarizing meetings. Telling one trusted person what is going on helps too. Tip.

Clinical options

Discuss what is driving it

  • Cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia (CBT-I). A short course of talking therapy aimed at sleep. There is moderate evidence that, done by phone, it improved insomnia in women with hot flashes more than a menopause education course did [16]. Poor sleep is one of the things that can make thinking feel worse [2]. The guideline we have been using also recommends CBT for menopausal mood and sleep [11].
  • Hormone therapy. For low mood in perimenopause the guideline gives a weak recommendation [11], and the evidence is moderate. It is not recommended as a treatment for brain fog or to protect thinking [2]. If hot flashes and night sweats are wrecking your sleep, treating them is a reasonable conversation to have with your doctor.
  • Plant estrogens (phytoestrogens). The guideline is very unclear as the evidence was neither for nor against [11].

If you decide to try creatine

Practical considerations · medical review pending

With creatine, it is all about consistent daily use, keeping up your fluids and choosing a reputable creatine monohydrate.

  • Start with 3 g a day, and move up to 5 g once you know your stomach can tolerate it. That is within the range used in studies [14][18]. Tip.
  • Take it when it is easy, so it becomes a habit. I take mine in a glass of water in the morning, but you can even put it in your coffee. Just don't leave it to stand too long, as creatine can degrade in a hot, acidic drink. Tip.
  • Keep drinking water through the day. Tip.
  • Expect a small change on the scales. We often associate creatine with big body builders. We do need to build our muscles, and 3 to 5 g may cause a small increase in body weight, mostly from water held in the muscle and some added muscle, not fat gain. Tip.
  • Where to buy. Choose a reputable creatine monohydrate. Organika Creatine Powder: [affiliate link to add once approved]. Use code FreeWomen25 for 25% off your first order [confirm the code is live]. We may earn a commission if you buy through our link. It does not change what we say about the evidence.

At work

Make room for support at work

We want to just have the tools, so that we can continue to turn up to work as normal, but we also want workplaces where, when there is an impact, the environment is supportive. When you consider we are the educators and mentors and we have such an important role in society and the workforce.

Most of the Canadian women in the surveys about the workplace were quietly working harder rather than asking for help [6][7]. Very few had taken time off or received formal support [6].

This is general information, not medical advice. What suits you depends on your symptoms and history, so discuss it with a clinician.

When not to simply power through

When should I get it checked?

Perimenopause is a common cause of these changes, but it is not the only one. Talk to a clinician if:

  • You have had depression, anxiety or another mental health condition before and it seems to be returning. A past episode is worth raising, and the 2018 guideline on menopause and mental health recommends a proper assessment [13].
  • Your symptoms are severe, or they are stopping you from working or caring for yourself.
  • You have thoughts of harming yourself or that life is not worth living. Please seek help straight away: in Canada you can call or text 9-8-8 at any time.
  • You also have unusual tiredness, weight change, or feel cold or slowed down. Thyroid disease and sleep apnea can look like menopausal mood and thinking changes, and both can be tested for [12].

If your thinking is getting steadily worse, or you are losing your way in familiar places, say so. A clinician can rule out other causes.

Useful resources

Trusted places to learn more

Places and books

  • Menopause Foundation of Canada: Canadian charity with information on menopause and work. [Link to confirm]
  • Book: The Menopause Brain by Lisa Mosconi: a neuroscientist's take on brain fog and mood. We like this book, it presents menopause less as a period of inevitable deterioration and more as a major biological "renovation" that can be navigated successfully. [Affiliate store link]

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Tags: brain fog, anxiety, low mood, work, confidence, memory, sleep, perimenopause

Evidence and transparency

How we describe the evidence

On this page we describe how sure we are in plain words. The study details sit in the grid below, so the research doesn't get in the way of the answer.

How we describe the evidence
What the page saysWhat it meansExample
Strong evidencePooled results from many studies, or large studies that followed thousands of womenPooled results from 7 studies of 9,141 women
Moderate evidenceFindings agree, but there are fewer or smaller studies, or women were observed rather than testedOne large survey
Limited evidenceA small study, or one without a comparison group. Promising, and we would like to see moreA pilot with 27 women
UnclearWe looked and there is no study yet, or the evidence is too thin to sayWhether worry and poor sleep feed brain fog
TipCommon sense that has not been studiedKeep a notebook in meetings

The sources

References and evidence grid

View all 18 references and evidence ratings
References and evidence grid
#ReferenceType and sizeHow sure we are
1Furey et al. 2025. Subjective vs objective cognition in menopause. J Int Neuropsychol Soc. doi:10.1017/S1355617725101306Pooled analysis, 24 comparisonsModerate (studies varied a lot)
2Maki PM, Jaff NG. 2022. Brain fog in menopause: a health-care professional's guide. Climacteric. doi:10.1080/13697137.2022.2122792Expert reviewModerate
3Greendale GA et al. 2009. Effects of the menopause transition and hormone use on cognitive performance. Neurology. doi:10.1212/WNL.0b013e3181a71193Large US cohort (size to add from card)Moderate
4Bromberger JT et al. 2013. Does risk for anxiety increase during the menopausal transition? SWAN. Menopause. doi:10.1097/GME.0b013e3182730599Large US cohort, 2,956 womenModerate
5Badawy Y et al. 2024. Depression risk in the menopausal transition. J Affect Disord 357:126-133. doi:10.1016/j.jad.2024.04.041Pooled analysis, 7 studies, 9,141 womenStrong
6Brent SE, Shirreff L, Yanchar NL, Christakis M. 2025. Workplace impact of menopause symptoms among Canadian women physicians. Healthcare 13(21):2699. doi:10.3390/healthcare13212699Survey, 217 women (volunteers)Limited
7Menopause Foundation of Canada. 2022. Menopause and Work in Canada (Leger online survey). Sponsored by Sun Life; not peer reviewedSurvey, 1,023 womenModerate
8Taylor S, Callahan B, Grant J, Islam RM, Davis SR. 2025. Menopause and work performance: a systematic review of observational studies. Menopause. doi:10.1097/GME.0000000000002557Systematic review, 10 studiesLimited
9Brotto LA et al. 2026. Maturitas 207:108874. doi:10.1016/j.maturitas.2026.108874Survey, 1,850 women (volunteers)Moderate
10Ballantyne EC, King JP, Green SM. 2021. Cognitive remediation pilot for women in the menopausal transition. Front Glob Womens Health 2:741539. doi:10.3389/fgwh.2021.741539Pilot, 27 women, no comparison groupLimited
11VA/DoD Clinical Practice Guideline for the Management of Menopause. 2026GuidelineCross-check; primary trials still to find for exercise, hormone therapy and plant estrogens
12Bachkangi et al. 2026. Menopause Rev 25(1):36-44. doi:10.5114/pm.2026.162164ReviewModerate
13Maki PM et al. 2018. Guidelines on menopause and mental health (full citation to copy from card MOOD-002)GuidelineModerate
14Xu C, Bi S, Zhang W, Luo L. 2024. The effects of creatine supplementation on cognitive function in adults: a systematic review and meta-analysis. Front Nutr 11:1424972. doi:10.3389/fnut.2024.1424972 (a 2025 correction exists and has not been checked)Pooled analysis, 16 trials, 492 adultsModerate for memory; low certainty for speed and attention
15Korovljeva D et al. 2025. Creatine HCl and creatine ethyl ester in perimenopausal and menopausal women (CONCRET-MENOPA). J Am Nutr Assoc (full citation to confirm; read through a news summary only)Placebo-controlled trial, 36 womenLimited
16McCurry SM, Sternfeld B, LaCroix AZ, et al. 2016. Telephone-based cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia in perimenopausal and postmenopausal women with vasomotor symptoms: a MsFLASH randomized clinical trial. JAMA Intern Med 176(7):913-920 (DOI to add)Randomized trial, 106 women, active comparisonModerate
17Carmody JF, Crawford S, Salmoirago-Blotcher E, Leung K, Churchill L, Olendzki N. 2011. Mindfulness training for coping with hot flashes: results of a randomized trial. Menopause. doi:10.1097/gme.0b013e318204a05cRandomized trial, 110 women, wait-list comparisonLimited
18Marshall S, Kitzan A, Wright J, Bocicariu L, Nagamatsu LS. 2026. Creatine and cognition in aging: a systematic review of evidence in older adults. Nutr Rev 84(2):333-344. doi:10.1093/nutrit/nuaf135Systematic review, 6 studies, 1,542 adults aged 55+Limited

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